Michelle Chia and Phyllis Quek, two renowned figures in the entertainment industry, have opened up about their personal journeys in love and self-discovery. During a candid discussion, Michelle expressed surprise upon learning that some people change themselves to please their partners. She regarded this as a risky approach to relationships. Both women emphasized the importance of self-love before entering into a romantic relationship.
The conversation took place during a girls' trip to Chiang Rai, Thailand, where Michelle and Phyllis indulged in activities such as glamping, riding a hot air balloon, trekking, and cooking in the wild. Their adventure will be featured in an upcoming episode of "Camping Around The World," airing on Channel 8.
Michelle, now 49, reflected on past relationships, noting that they typically lasted between six to eight years. In recent years, she invested considerable effort into making her relationships work but ultimately decided to stop trying when she saw no potential for success. She highlighted the vulnerability that can arise when someone shows interest, stating,
"Because when a guy shows interest in you, he'd easily take advantage of your vulnerability" – Michelle
Michelle learned a valuable lesson about self-dependence, asserting,
"Someone taught me this too, you can't rely on anyone for your happiness" – Michelle
Similarly, Phyllis Quek, aged 52, shared her experiences growing up in a single-parent family, which left her feeling insecure. After a brief marriage to actor Shaun Chen from 2009 to 2011, Phyllis found herself married to Australian businessman David Cox since 2012. She acknowledged her tendency to fall in love too easily, often without realizing it was the wrong type of love. Her previous aspirations revolved around starting a family, which influenced her dating decisions. However, Phyllis recognized the misguided nature of those intentions, explaining,
"My dream was to have a family and that made me want to date. But I think those intentions were wrong" – Phyllis
In the context of relationships, Phyllis advised against relying on others for support or affection, as it often leads to meeting unsuitable partners. She concluded,
"I have to live for myself, not for anyone else" – Phyllis
Michelle echoed this sentiment by stating that once she lets go of a relationship, she doesn't dwell on it:
"Once I let go, I don't look back. I won't cry or dwell on it" – Michelle
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