Qi Yuwu and Joanne Peh, celebrated Singaporean actors, recently marked their 10th wedding anniversary with heartfelt reflections on their journey together. The couple, who tied the knot in an intimate ceremony on September 9, 2014, in Sentosa, Singapore, have shared insights into their marriage's evolution, highlighting both the challenges and joys they have experienced over the years. Their wedding, set against the iconic backdrop of the now-demolished Merlion statue, marked the beginning of a new chapter for them as they committed to building a life together.
Since announcing their relationship in 2013, Qi Yuwu and Joanne Peh have attracted significant public interest. Their swift decision to marry just over a year after making their relationship public surprised many. However, it is the candid revelations about their early marital struggles that have truly resonated with audiences. The couple openly admitted to experiencing frequent and "heart-wrenching" arguments during the initial years of their marriage.
"We have our sweet moments, but we'll also have times when we would argue. Of course I wish that our marriage will be happy and blissful, but things may not always turn out the way we want them to." – Yuwu
Despite these challenges, Qi Yuwu and Joanne Peh have noticed a positive shift over the past two years. They attribute the decrease in the frequency and intensity of their arguments to a deeper understanding of one another.
"Perhaps it's because we know each other better." – Yuwu
"Or maybe you've found a way to cope with me." – Yuwu
Communication has played a crucial role in improving their relationship. Qi Yuwu admitted that he often clams up when unhappy, inadvertently affecting Joanne Peh.
"If I have to say it out loud then it's meaningless." – Yuwu
"You clam up when you don't feel your best, and you'll have this aura around you that scares me. Now I have an understanding of what it's about. But the good thing is, now you know that you have to tell me." – Joanne
Joanne Peh has expressed how she is easily affected by Qi Yuwu's moods, noting that even subtle changes in his demeanor can cause her concern.
"Even if he just furrows his brow, I'll worry that it has something to do with me." – Joanne
The couple acknowledges the importance of not taking life too seriously and cherishing small moments of joy together. Their shared tradition of engaging in nonsensical conversations has been a source of happiness and closeness for them.
"There's bliss in being able to share nonsensical stuff with each other." – Yuwu
"You need some non-functional things in life to have fun." – Yuwu
Qi Yuwu has pledged to become a better version of himself to ensure a fulfilling marriage and life for Joanne Peh. This commitment reflects his desire to grow alongside her, continually fostering a loving and supportive relationship.
As parents to two children, Qi Yuwu and Joanne Peh strive to balance family life with their personal and professional commitments. They emphasize the significance of resolving conflicts rather than avoiding them, believing it strengthens their bond.
"But one thing I think that hasn't changed is that we always resolve the issue in the end instead of avoiding it." – Yuwu
Joanne Peh has voiced her concern about the fleeting nature of time, expressing a desire for more shared experiences with Qi Yuwu.
"Perhaps it's precisely because the future is unknown… I mentioned to him yesterday that I think there isn't enough time… I don't think we've spent enough time together." – Joanne
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