Selena Lee and Anson Cha have parted ways after an eight-and-a-half-year relationship. The couple, whose romance remained a secret for four years before Anson's proposal in February 2021, has called off their engagement. Despite having not tied the knot, they cherished their time together. Selena announced their breakup on her Instagram account on February 9, revealing that the decision had been made two months prior.
Their relationship remained private until Anson's proposal, which marked a turning point in their personal journey. Anson, known as a personal trainer to celebrities such as Chow Yun Fat and Aaron Kwok, proposed to Selena in early 2021. However, due to the Covid-19 pandemic, the couple postponed their wedding plans. In a 2022 interview with Carol Cheng, Selena had mentioned the delay but maintained a positive outlook on their future together.
Selena, who recently turned 44 on February 12, expressed gratitude for the years spent with Anson. She shared her feelings on Instagram, stating that despite not marrying, she considers herself "Mrs Cha."
"I'm not in a hurry, many people already call me Mrs Cha, so it's okay, I already see myself as that. That piece of paper [marriage certificate] is just a formality." – Selena Lee
Reflecting on their relationship, Selena emphasized the importance of emotional well-being and personal happiness over societal expectations.
"Getting married does not necessarily mean happiness. Instead, it's about how to enjoy the process of being together when destiny arrives. It is also a blessing to meet someone at a certain stage in life with whom you can learn and grow together, someone whom you want to love. In the process, there is effort, heart, growth and love." – Selena Lee
In her heartfelt announcement, Selena acknowledged the mutual respect and affection that continue to define their bond.
"I'm grateful for the eight-and-a-half years we've been together. We are both doing well. We made this decision with love and gratitude, as well as blessings for each other. Thank you for respecting our decision and privacy," – Selena Lee
She urged her followers to pursue genuine happiness by following their hearts.
"Instead, follow and listen to your heart, and it's alright as long as you feel peaceful and happy," – Selena Lee
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